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The Christmas Cane

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 6:19 pm


This is a pic of my new lexan cane from Extreme Restraints.

This wasn’t the type of cane I was expecting in my stocking this year, but I’ve been enjoying it all the same. It’s also not a defective light saber either, I’m sorry to say. I’m really sorry right after he’s landed a particularly hard stroke with it. *grin*

I still can’t believe how much that little thing stings! It looks so cool but it burns like crazy. Right after we got it, we were playing around with it, and Dan was just giving me a few light strokes with it when I decided it was more than I’d bargained for.

I was lying facedown on the bed getting to know my new toy, when Dan landed a real stingy stroke. It wasn’t too bad at first, but then the burn started to build up awfully quick. I started bouncing around, whimpering and complaining, just as Dan’s next stroke came down. That stroke landed hard and more to the side than he had planned for.

Wow! I yelped and started grabbing at my bottom but that was one of those strokes that couldn’t be helped by rubbing. I rubbed all around the area, while Dan checked out the injured area and pronounced it good. I tried to convince him it wasn’t good at all, but he was too impressed with the welt it left. Go figure! LOL

I have to admit, once I got a good look at the welt, I was fairly impressed as well. I may not be as into marks as Dan is, but I still like to see some results. That was a good welt, too, I felt it for the rest of the day. That’s amazing with my tough bottom. It usually takes a lot more effort on his part to leave any soreness.

The next day was a different story. The welt was gone and I was feeling pretty good about the whole experience, so it was time to try the cane out a little more. I was about to go out for a little shopping, so Dan decided a little pre-shopping caning was in order. This time Dan was trying for “hot crossed buns.”

I laid out on the bed and Dan gave me three good strokes with the cane. He gave me two straight across, and then one crossing the other two. They weren’t nearly as hard as the previous one that left the impressive welt, but those three strokes still got my attention. Wheeeeee!

As soon as he said that was it, I immediately started rubbing with both hands trying to relieve some of that sting. It didn’t do much good though because it burned on and on. It slowly subsided into a nice even warmth that I really enjoyed though.

It’s a pretty intense little toy, but so far, I’m really enjoying it. That could be a problem later if that part of me that I refer to as “Pain Slut” gets any say. Pain Slut may get so greedy that she’ll ask for a long caning with that thing or something just as ridiculous. That’s the great thing problem about that part of me, it always gets me in trouble by asking for the more intense toys and even enjoys them!

I’ll write an update about the cane as soon as that part of me gets her way. It shouldn’t be too long before that happens, Dan know what he’s doing by introducing that cane like he has. He’s just been teasing me with these little sessions with it. Now I’m starting to wonder what a nice long session would be like. I could be in trouble, but that’s the kind of trouble I like. *wink*


  1. “This wasn’t the type of cane I was expecting in my stocking this year….”

    Hey, you got candy canes, too!

    As for wanting and getting a long caning, actions speak louder than words — the new paddle is missing from its hook on the bedroom wall, but the new cane mysteriously isn’t missing….

    Comment by Dan — 1/5/2006 @ 9:13 am

  2. Ummm I better make sure that paddle gets put back up there really quickly! 😆

    Comment by Bethie — 1/5/2006 @ 5:25 pm

  3. hehe. Candy cane indeed. Sounds like a fun toy though. *g* looking forward to the update…..

    Comment by patty — 1/5/2006 @ 6:56 pm

  4. Beautifully evil cane dear bethie!

    I dread the wooden canes, so I cannot even fathom the sting that comes from a lexan cane. This picture, however, is a wonderful trigger — I can sense my own conflicted turmoil on canes bubbling….Lovely!


    poiesia 🙂

    Comment by poiesia — 1/5/2006 @ 7:28 pm

  5. LOL.. I can definitely relate to that “other part of you” who has all those “ridiculous” ideas. *shakes head* A lexan cane.. wow… I admire you, lol. 🙂

    Comment by rivka — 1/5/2006 @ 10:05 pm

  6. Patty, that update will be coming soon I hope…I mean, I fear! 😉

    poiesia, it is beautiful isn’t it? It really is quite a dilemma; do I want it or do I not? Doesn’t really matter, I’m gonna get it sooner or later! 😆

    rivka, it’s “ridiculous” alright, but, boy, isn’t it fun? 😉

    Comment by Bethie — 1/6/2006 @ 10:32 pm

  7. I just had to laugh when you said the cane was like a defective lightsaber. LOL! I looked at it again and realized it sort of looked like one. Take care.

    Comment by padme — 1/9/2006 @ 5:41 pm

  8. Hehehe. Lovely little cane isn’t it. We have one too.

    I actually ‘like’ this one better than wooden because it doesn’t impact as deeply – mostly surface action and sting/burn. But I hate it more when Q decides to ‘rapid fire’ with it.

    It does leave a delicious stinging burn tho. Yep, my inner pain-slut likes it.

    Comment by Jayda — 2/11/2006 @ 2:18 pm

  9. Whaouh, great cane. It must give a lot of spicy evening and night.

    May the cane be with you.

    Comment by herve — 2/12/2006 @ 2:40 am

  10. So how do you keep your welts from turning into lovely bruises? I adore the power of the cane but despise the marks that linger for over a week. Is it technique or just the way it is? Dmast and I would love to know as our cane is getting all dusty in the corner.

    Comment by daisy — 2/12/2006 @ 11:23 am

  11. Daisy, I don’t mark easily but the one time I had a lasting mark it was from a small rattan cane. It sort of bothered me that it took so long to fade, and it wasn’t so much a bruise as just a dark mark that wasn’t attractive at all. This lexan cane leaves welts but nothing like the rattan ones we’ve played with and the marks fade quickly. Like Jayda said, it doesn’t impact as heavily as the wooden ones. I like the stingy feel of a smaller cane and so this one is perfect for us. Also, Dan is adamant about after-care and applies lots of aloe lotion to my bottom. I don’t know if that’s what keeps me from bruising too much or if I just have a really tough bottom. 😉

    Comment by Bethie — 2/12/2006 @ 12:50 pm

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