Spanking Bethie All about my spankings and my love


I Have Stupid Nipples

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 4:40 pm

That’s right, my nipples are stupid. It doesn’t seem to matter what Dan does to them, they *like* it. He can bite, pinch, twist, and slap them with different toys and they just pop right up for more. Hmph!


They especially love the smaller of the Wicked School Master Straps. Dan will start out lightly slapping my breasts with it and that will get my nipples a little perky. But as soon as he lands an especially stingy one, my nipples just get harder. If he lands a good one right across them as they’re getting sensitive, that gets them as hard as they can get.

The same thing happens whenever he pinches or bites them, too. They don’t like being treated tenderly or gently. If he just lightly kisses them or caresses them, they will get a little friendly. It’s nothing like when they get handled a little more roughly though.

It wouldn’t be too bad but Dan loves to tease me about it. He’ll give them a quick pinch and then sit back and watch the show. Every time, they just pop right up, looking for more. He gets practically gleeful about it. He says they’re “happy” because they like it. That, of course, just means they must want more and more is what they get. And they just keep being perky.

Like I said, stupid nipples! I even call them that when they get too darn perky and give me away…I mean when they act stupid. *wink*

I don’t help either because sometimes I just can’t help but burst out laughing and grinning from ear to ear. Dan can spank my bottom bright red, pinch and slap my nipples until they’re hard as rocks, and what do I do? I just get happy. I say I’m wired crazy but Dan says I’m wired just right for him. It’s a good thing we found each other! I don’t think anyone else could make me laugh so hard about my stupid nipples. *grin*


A Real Spankings OTK

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 11:50 pm


I’m up to here in projects this week so I’ll apologize ahead of time for the lack of personal anecdotes. Although the truth is, I should also be apologizing to Dan for the lack of acitivity which would lead to those personal anecdotes! I’ll make it up to him eventually. And then I’ll blog about it and we’ll all be happy! Yay!

In the meantime, I’ll share a pic or two for your enjoyment. This one is from a set at Real Spankings. It’s a very nice brush spanking. Mmmm kinda makes me envious. *wink*


Oh So Pretty!

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 10:27 pm


This was just too pretty not to share. Enjoy!


Some Discipline Spanking

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 12:01 am

And no, that’s not a discipline spanking for me, thank you very much! I just like watching a good discipline spanking, not receiving one.


You can watch these Spanking Digital clips if you want a quick sample of what I’m talking about. Have fun watching – I know I did. *wink*


Valentine Recap

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 12:13 am

We decided to take our little celebration on the road so we headed off to one of our favorite places and settled in for a nice visit. I’d even reserved one of the suites that had a jacuzzi made for two right in the room. Yummy!

We’re movie buffs so the first thing we did was go to a movie we’d both been looking forward to, and then had a scrumptious steak dinner while we discussed the movie as well as the other fun things. It was a nice beginning for such a special occasion. I kept thinking how wonderful it is that we’re such a good fit and how lucky I am to have such a good man to call my own. I couldn’t wait to get back to the room and settle in for the night.

It was a nice evening but we didn’t waste any time getting back to our room. Once we were there I didn’t waste much time setting up the tub. I had draped myself over the side to check out the dials and such when Dan snuck up behind me to gave me a couple of good smacks on my bottom. He told me that’s just the way he liked to see me so I giggled and wiggled my behind at him a little before I straightened back up.

Dan made a few threats about a wet bottomed spanking but I went ahead and started the water anyway. I was feeling so good that even that kind of threat couldn’t slow me down. I was ready for a little fun!

We got in that big tub, started up the jets, and kicked back and enjoyed each other’s company. It’s so wonderful to take a nice relaxing soak with Dan. The hot water, the bubbles, and intimacy of the experience make for one very sensual experience. Mmmmmm…

Maybe my motor was in overdrive because we’d no sooner gotten out of the water and on the bed before I wanted to pleasure Dan. I couldn’t wait to get him into my mouth for a blowjob. He means everything to me and I wanted to show him how much I appreciated him. For me, that’s one of my favorite ways to get that point across. I didn’t even want to wait for my spanking!

I used my mouth and my hands to give him the best experience I could. I love hearing his moans and know that I’m making him feel good. When he came, I felt complete and ready to kick back and relax for the rest of the night.

Dan wasn’t quite ready for that though. He got up and told me to roll over because he’d brought some toys along just for me. I got comfortable and waited to find out what he had planned. He obviously planned on giving me a very special and stingy spanking because he started with the brat loop.

He had me doing my bed bounce in no time. I love a lot of sting so as much as I was “ooohing” and “ouching” I was enjoying it completely. Dan moved on from the loop to some of the other stingy toys but I didn’t notice the toys so much as the feeling he was creating. My bottom had a nice light burn going and I was loving it. Dan would stop occasionally to caress and sometimes kiss the places he’d just spanked.

I was lost in the feeling when he told me to roll over and then began making love to me. The burning of my bottom as it was pushed down onto the bed was exquisite. I relaxed and concentrated on all the different sensations Dan was giving me. I got lost in it all until I reached that perfect moment when Dan gave me an amazing orgasm. It was one of those that sort of roll over you like waves. One earthshaking wave after another. I wasn’t sure it was ever going to end and I didn’t want it to. When I finally collapsed back into the bed, I could still feel little waves rippling through me. I was mush…completely satisfied and happy mush though. *grin*

We eventually rallied and ordered some room service but that was all the excitement we could handle for one night and fell asleep quite a bit earlier than usual for us. Guess we wore ourselves out, huh? It was a great night though and worthy of the occasion.

There was one pressie we didn’t get to use that night and I’m hoping to use soon. I’ll report back once we do, but for now, it’s a secret. *wink*


Crazy Week

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 9:10 pm

I’ve had to be away from my computer for various reasons; some good, some not-so-good. The not-so-good has had to do with a strange cold I caught that caused my sinuses to go crazy and my eyes to water if I spent more than a few minutes looking at my screen. It was awful. After just a couple of minutes my eyes would start to burn and the next thing I knew, I had tears running down my face. It just wasn’t worth trying to do anything.

The good reasons have been due more to our Valentine/Anniversary adventures. It was lovely and I’m still grinning! Sometimes I can’t believe how lucky I am to have found Dan and I really can’t believe it’s been two years. It feels like I’ve known him forever on one hand, but on the other, I can’t believe two whole years have already gone by. It’s been a fun two years, filled with laughter, love, and lots of good kinky fun.

Yeah, lots of laughter is mixed in with the love and kinkiness. I’m a light-hearted person and I think that’s been reflected in this blog of mine. I have my passions but very little angst. Heck, I barely had any angst when I was a teenager. I was too busy having fun…and I’m still having fun.

That’s why it doesn’t bother me when people say my blog is “light.” I’ll take it as a compliment, thank you. I’m happy to tell you about my spankings, my shopping, and my wish lists (which poor Dan has to keep up with), but I doubt you’ll ever hear me agonizing over any of it. Unless of course, I can’t find just the right pair of panties for my mood. That’s just me.

Tomorrow I’ll relate all the juicy details of the Valentine spanking fun and tell you about the most amazing of my pressies. It’s so cool!

Right now I’m going back to watch more Olympics. I’m crazy for the Winter Olympics btw. Wheeeee! Before I go, here’s some hearts I made up but didn’t have a chance to post before Valentine’s Day. Can you tell where my mind was?



Lazy Weekend

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 11:19 am

It’s starting to look like another of those lazy weekends for us. I threatened to liven things up by wearing my caning panties, but then I quickly returned to my senses and took back the offer.

Have I mentioned the caning panties before? I can’t remember and I’m too lazy to search my archives, so I’ll explain them just in case I haven’t. During the holiday season last year, one of the stores I shop carried panties with holiday themes on them and I bought a few. I wasn’t thinking about it when I showed them to Dan. His eyes lit up when he saw the ones with little candy canes on them and declared them to be my caning panties. He says whenever I wear them I must be asking for the cane. Huh? I just thought they looked cute.

I’ve added those panties to the group that I wear when I want a spanking. Needless to say, the caning panties don’t get worn much. I might have to rethink that tactic now that we have the new cane. I’m still a little curious about it since we haven’t played with it much. I’m thinking the upcoming Valentine’s Day might be my opportunity.

I may have to put them on and hope my spanko curiosity or greediness isn’t going too far on this one. We haven’t played much with that cane so I’d like to see what it really feels like. A stroke here and there has only made me wonder what it’d be like to get more of it. I know it can be a very intense toy, but Dan’s only used it lightly so far. Even a light stroke leaves a nice sting but it fades pretty quickly. It makes me wonder what a harder stroke would feel like.

I know some people think canes are only evil toys and will think I’m crazy for wanting more, but I’m the type of spanko who likes her spankings intense. It also helps that Dan is great with a cane. He knows how to vary the intensity and make it a very sensual experience. He’ll tease me with light strokes that gives me a taste of it’s ability to sting. Before I know it, I’m aching for him to swing it harder and give me more and more. I get greedy.

I’ve never regretted it though! By the time I get more, I want it that way. It’s funny how that works, isn’t it? What’s really funny is that now that I’m thinking about it like this, I kinda want to go put on those caning panties and prance around the house. Greed and curiousity are a bad combination in a brat like me. *wink*


Where’s The Spanking?

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 10:02 pm

I just realized how long it’s been since I posted. Whoops! I didn’t mean to leave my blog for so long. It’s just that sometimes life sneaks up and takes over so much that when I’m on the computer, all I want to do is play mindless games. Nothing is wrong, I’ve just been busy with several projects.

I’m also very aware that Valentine’s is fast approaching and I’m making plans for our private celebration of our second year together. Has it really been two years since Dan and I began this journey? Love is tricky and spanko love is no exception. Sometimes I think it makes life easier though. Trust and honesty are a must and that flows over into every aspect of our life together. I love that part because it means I’m relaxed and fearless in this love of ours.

I know some people would never understand us. They think submission means being confined but for me it’s just the opposite. It’s freeing in ways I can’t completely explain. Knowing he cares for me and will protect me completely let’s me be free. It’s sort of like that test where you stand in front of someone and fall back, trusting them to catch you. I could do that with Dan and never hesitate a second. He’ll always catch me and I’ll never have to doubt that.

I can bare my heart and bottom to him without ever having to worry. He takes care of them both quite well, sometimes with much intensity, I might add. *grin*

There haven’t been any long spankings lately, just the short ones I get on a regular basis. I get spankings like some people get kisses. I get a few swats when we greet each other, when we say goodbye, when I walk in the room, when I leave the room, when I announce I’m taking a shower, when I get out of the shower, and just about every other chance we get.

You’d think that’d be enough, but no, I’m still in need of a nice, long spanking. Since Dan keeps saying I’m due one, I’m sure I’ll be telling all about it in the very near future. I like having spankings to look forward to, it makes me kinda silly though. I start thinking of ways to leave the toys I really like out and handy so they’ll get used. Not that it really matters, he knows, he always knows!

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