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The Caning Pajamas

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 5:59 pm

It all started because I had to run into a store to grab a couple of sale items I wanted. This is how way too many of my “spanked because of shopping” incidents occur, so you’d think I’d know better, right? Yeah, yeah, but then I’d be sensible. Especially since I had Dan with me and he’d agreed to the little shopping detour on conditions. The conditions were that I would be quick and just get the items I was going in for; no wandering around and no getting sidetracked by non-essential items.

So off I went in one direction as Dan went in the other. As I’m zipping through the aisles, conscious of how much time I’m spending because Dan was only getting a couple of items of his own and I surely didn’t want to keep him waiting, I saw my downfall in the pajama section. I stood there like a deer in headlights looking at the cutest pajamas I’d ever seen.

“Oh my…I must have them…but I can’t…can I?” My brain locked up at that point as both the angel and the devil sitting on my shoulders both began to screech, “Squeeee!”

But Dan was somewhere in the same store and I needed to hurry. After all, he was good enough to cooperate by going shopping with me in the first place and I didn’t want to violate the shopping conditions. But these were the cutest pajamas I’d ever seen!

I slowly walked up to the display to fondle said pajamas. They were made of soft fleece…yum…with a yellow duck design. They were also a footed one piece with a zipper down the front. No drop seat though, but that was fine with me. Because they were the cutest pajamas I’d ever seen! Have I mentioned that?

But somewhere in my memory, I remembered something vital; Dan didn’t like that type of pajamas. *sigh*

Somehow I managed to regain my sanity and pull myself away from the display. Slowly, I walked away, with just one glace back before reminding myself to hustle. I was good, too, and managed to get in line before Dan. The shopping trip was a success, but I couldn’t forget those pj’s.

Much later that evening, I mentioned the pajamas. I wanted to know, how strong was his objection to them and if there could be an exception. After some discussion, it turned out Dan’s objection was more about sleeping in them than wearing them. Since I sleep in the nude, that wasn’t much of an objection it turned out and after I promised to never wear them in the bed, I got the clearance I needed. Woo-hoot!

There was one little condition though. Since Dan doesn’t like clothing that hampers easy access, he had to make some rule about them and, of course, that rule had to include his beloved delrin cane. He said if I bought the pajamas, anytime I wore them, he would cane me in them. I already have at least two pairs of panties that Dan thinks wearing them means I need a caning, was I ready for a pair of caning pajamas? I protested a little, but eventually I agreed. How could I not? I get the pajamas and a caning. Since the caning will be for fun, it’s a win-win as far as I was concerned so I went back and got my pj’s.

the caning pajamas

I was about to take a picture of these when Dan came along and added the cane for the full effect. Then he gave me a couple of strokes just for fun. He can’t even see the pajamas without reaching for the cane! Then he asked if I was going to put them on. I think I’ll put them on later this evening. They’re going to be my lounging pajamas; my lounging and caning pajamas, that is.

One last thing for those who might be interested, I bought the pajamas at Kmart. I got them in a larger size (that’s what they had) so they’re a little baggy on me, but I don’t care, they’re comfy. I lourve them!


I’m blaming the vacuum!

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 2:57 pm

icanhascheezburger vacuum lolcat

I cannot believe my elbow is still bothering me and I’m blaming the stupid vacuum. If only I hadn’t tried to be such a good *cough* girl and done all the vacuuming that day…*sigh* now my arm is all jacked up and I can barely type. Poor little me. Heh.

Okay, back to reality. I’ve had tendinitis before and it didn’t take this long to heal! And if one more person points out that it’s probably because I’m not a kid anymore, I’m going to bite them. Seriously.

For now, I’m resting it and treating it as directed, but it means I’m not doing much. I did manage to count up the comments and I have a total of nineteen. A special “Thank you” to everyone who commented! It looks like the belt won, but since I don’t have a belt, I’ll let Dan pick out the leather strap of his choosing. Then we’ll have big fun and I’ll tell you all about it! But not right now, I’m still taking it easy.

Why should my bad elbow prevent my spanking? Because it’s really bad. I’m having problems just letting it hang in the sling, it hurts no matter how little I move my arm. It’s ridiculous. I’ll be going to see my doctor in a week and I’m sure he’ll tell me I’m being impatient and I have to let it heal in its own time. Bleh.

Dan doesn’t think I’ll be able to get in a comfortable position and not move around too much so spanking is on the back burner for the most part. There are still the occasional surprise spanks, but nothing too exciting. That means I’m getting way behind in my spankings. I think I’m up to three spankings owed now. Geez. How did that happen? I’m such a good girl, it has to be a mistake! Right????

Cat pic courtesy of


Love Our Lurkers Day!

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 10:00 pm

Love Our Lurkers 2009

Bonnie of My Bottom Smarts has organized another Love Our Lurkers Day and it looks to be a great one! If you are one of the silent readers who visit here and other blogs, this is the day we encourage you to step out of the shadows and leave a comment.

I know you’re out there, so do a gal a favor and say “Hi.” I would beg but I have to save all my begging for Dan, so I’ll go for the pity tactic. I have a terrible case of tendinitis so I’m typing this using just my left hand…and it’s taking forever! I’m dedicated I tell you! And if it weren’t for spell check, this post would read more like a lol cat wrote it. LOL (Sorry, I had to do it.)

Even if you don’t comment here, go visit Bonnie or any of the blogs Bonnie has listed on her Love Our Lurkers post and comment there. At least make the rounds and see what’s going on for this LOL day. It’ll be fun I promise!

Normally I would automatically offer up my bottom to be spanked in exchange for comments so I hate to disappoint (I’ve done this for the previous LOL Days I participated in after all), but I feel like playing a little game while we’re at it. I’m calling it the “Spank Bethie with Comments” game. What are the rules? We don’t need no stinking rules! But I guess I should tell you how to play or we’ll just run amok, won’t we?

Okay, here are a few guidelines. If you’ve been reading here, then I bet you know which toys are available in my toy box. If you’re new, you can always go back and see what I have. I promise, there are lots to choose from. With that in mind, if you want to get me a swat in exchange for your comment, tell me which toy you think it should be with and why. While you’re at it, tell me a little about yourself as well. I’d love to know more about the people who visit me here!

When I tally the numbers later, I’ll see which toy got the most votes and the total number of comments will determine the number of spanks. Since there are no rules you can vote more than once if you want to vote for a different toy. I’m doing that so you delurkers will get a chance to practice comment posting. It’s not that I’m greedy or anything like that. *wink*

If you’re not delurking and just want to show how much you lurve me…I’ll count those comments, too. Nope, I’m not greedy at all!

In case you need a suggestion…pretty rose paddle!

Leather Thorn rose paddle

*Note: If your comment goes into moderation, that is normal because of my comment security and I will approve your comment asap.*


Holey Paddle = Ouchie Spanking!

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 9:38 pm

holey paddle

We gave that paddle a good workout recently and I can honestly report that it was one very ouchie spanking! It was also a good one, believe it or not. I know it looks scary and paddles with holes have a certain reputation, but I still enjoyed being paddled with it. Well, maybe not so much during certain moments of the actual spanking, but I definitely enjoyed the extra sting and the long lasting afterglow.

It really was a pretty good test of that paddle, too. That is, I think forty strokes is a good test. My bottom was extra tender the next day which is always a good sign so I’d say the paddle with holes is a success! I know Dan thought it was a success as well, but for different reasons. For some reason he likes all the wiggling and squealing and I was doing a lot of that so he was really pleased. He even keeps saying we’ll be using that paddle a lot from now on.

I guess this all means that we now have yet another intense toy added to our collection and one more reason to behave myself. I don’t even want to think what would happen if Dan decided that was the “Paddle of Laundry Encouragement.” Eeek!

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