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New Smilie

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

I just finished a new smilie!

beltsmilie

I have to admit this though, I’m not quite brave or foolish enough to blow a raspberry at Dan these days unless I really want to be thoroughly spanked. That’s not to say I’m not tempted occasionally. After all, I’m still a brat down deep inside. I’ve just gotten really good at biting my tongue. *grin*

Oh yeah, I plan to go ahead and make a place on the blog for my growing collection of smilies. If my head cold lingers on, I should have a couple of more done soon. There’s nothing quite like losing myself in my animations to help me forget I have the sniffles. Also, since Dan won’t spank me when I’m sick, I’m left to animate what I can’t get. LOL

I’m A Greedy Lil’ Spanko!

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

I know I said I’d post about the Valentine Spanking, but for one reason or another I kept getting sidetracked. I think maybe I didn’t want to really think about it. You see, I sort of lost my spanko mind. I guess it’d be easier just to tell the story than try to figure it out.

We’d had a wonderful day. We had an intimate lunch at one of our favorite restaurants, spent a relaxing afternoon together, and then enjoyed a romantic dinner complete with our favorite wine.

When we exchanged presents after dinner, I was excited to find a new riding crop and paddle among my goodies. Dan’s so good at picking out exactly what I like that it amazes me. Everything from heart shaped earrings with my favorite gem to the Godiva liqueur I love was perfectly romantic. The riding crop and paddle fit right in as far as I was concerned and I couldn’t wait to try them out.

We’d decided to watch a spanking dvd after dinner, so while he went to set it up, I went off to put on something sweet. I’d decided on a frilly black lace baby doll nightie and black fishnets stockings with satin bows at the top.

When I joined Dan, he was suitably impressed with my outfit and we settled in to enjoy our movie. The movie was one he’d been sent so we weren’t sure what to expect, but this one was actually enjoyable. I was relieved because some of them just aren’t. I’m not saying it was great, but we had fun watching it and it helped set the mood.

As soon as the movie was over, Dan told me to get on my knees in the middle of the bed which I was quick to do seeing as I was ready for action. I stuck my bottom up in the air and wiggled it around in anticipation while he picked out a few toys.

I knew the new paddle and crop were going to be in the lineup and I hoped he’d think of the flogger and strap but I didn’t want to be too demanding so I waited quietly although not too patiently. My butt was tingling in anticipation so I waved it around some more just for fun.

Dan eventually turned his attention back to me, announcing he was going to start with my new paddle. It’s a small wooden paddle with some decorative engraving and I wasn’t sure what to expect from it. It looked fairly harmless but then I thought that stupid Cracker Barrel paddle was just a kid’s toy. Yeah, right.

I quickly realized this paddle wasn’t as harmless as it looked either. It had a cute picture engraved on it so I guess that’s what fooled me. As it turned out, that paddle has some sting to it and after about a dozen swats I was feeling some burn.

That’s about the time Dan decided to switch implements and asked if I’d like some leather. I thought that sounded like a good idea so I agreed rather emphatically. I should’ve known better. Dan doesn’t make offers like that lightly.

I heard a swish-swish and looked over my shoulder to see Dan standing there grinning madly while he tested the swing of the new crop. This crop is standard length and has a long thin slapper on the end. Our other crop has a wider slapper which I’ve always liked so I was anxious to see how the new one felt.

Now I know just how much difference a little less leather can make. That long thin slapper stung like crazy when it landed. Dan started out lightly but after a few lighter swats he warned me he wanted to see what would happen if he really swung it. What happened was I yelped and jumped every time he landed one. Darn that thing stings something wonderful awful when he really swings it.

After a few of those, Dan stepped back to admire his work. He loves seeing marks especially when it’s a new toy and this one had left some serious impressions. I was even a little impressed by the marks but I wasn?t about to admit that just yet. I was hoping to move on to the flogger.

Luckily Dan was feeling generous and decided the flogger was a good idea, too. He’s really gotten good with that thing so in no time I was feeling very…um…happy. I guess it showed because he started teasing me about getting the tails of the flogger wet. What can I say? I *like* the flogger.

Okay, this is where I lost my mind, I was feeling so good. My bottom was warm and throbbing nicely and I just wanted more. When I start feeling like that, all I want is to be spanked harder and longer. I can’t seem to get enough.

So I did the craziest thing I’ve ever done. I asked for the cane…the big one.

I wanted to feel something more intense across my bottom and for some reason, the cane seemed like just the thing. Dan was more than happy to comply and went to get it while I readjusted myself on the bed trying to get my butt in the right position.

The first stroke landed on the fullest part of my bottom and it felt fantastic. The sting followed by the burn was just what my bottom was craving. I moaned and buried my face into the pillow.

Slowly, Dan landed strokes all over my bottom slowly increasing the intensity of his swing. Finally he landed one in the crease between my cheeks and thigh. That one made me yelp so he moved down to my thighs.

Now I was finally feeling like I’d had enough but Dan wasn’t quite done yet. He liked the reaction he’d gotten when he’d hit my crease so he did it again. That’s when I started complaining but he went ahead and gave me a few more good ones before stopping to admire his handiwork.

I yelped a little when he ran his fingers across the areas where he’d landed the hardest strokes but somehow I still liked the feeling. Something about that after burn gets me every time. It’s deliciously intense in a way that surprises me. I think I’d built the cane up in my mind to be the worst implement ever so it’s hard for me to accept the idea that I like its intensity.

I like it so much I asked for it. Eeek! I still can’t believe it. What was I thinking? Okay, I wasn’t thinking, I was feeling well-spanked and wanting more. I got greedy – plain and simple.

At the time I didn’t care though. I was enjoying myself and once Dan was done looking at my marks, he rolled me over and I got to enjoy myself even more. As far as I’m concerned, there’s nothing better than great sex when I’ve got a hot tender bottom. Especially since it’s with the man I love. *sigh*

Now I just need to learn to control my greedy nature. If I don’t, there’s no telling what I’ll be asking for next. He’s been threatening to buy me an acrylic cane like Invidia’s. I don?t think so!

I guess I better beat him to it and start looking for something more to my liking. If anyone has any suggestions, feel free to tell me. In the meantime, I’m off to the online stores. Wish me luck!

Fetish Game

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

This looks like a game that could come in handy when you’re first getting to know someone. Grab a few beers, find a quiet place to play, and then have some fun.

Fetishgame

I found this at and according to the description, “Fetish! is the game that allows you and your partner to safely explore popular sexual fetishes – like Food, Feet, Voyeurism and Domination. While venturing along your selected fetish path, you select fetish cards containing adventurous ideas that you and your partner can enjoy together.”

I can think of a time or two this could have come in handy when I was single. I’d even consider getting the game now just for giggles but I doubt I could ever get Dan to play. He has enough games he wants to play as it is.

Speaking of which, I’m hoping for some play tonight so I’d better start getting ready. 😉

Spanking and Bondage

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

I’m so glad I’m not the only one who thinks these two kinks go so well together. Bondage seems to be on a lot of spanko’s minds these days and after seeing this post on Patty’s blog, I remembered Dan posted a couple of pics of our rope play on his blog.

He posted two pics including one of me in a rope harness and this later one I really liked.

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Monk says he plans to make some rope in hot pink which I’d just love to have. Not only would it be fun to play with, it’d make for some yummy pictures.

My Pre-Valentine Spanking Report

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

I know I promised to report about my Valentine Spanking but because of one thing or another, I couldn’t seem to write it the way I wanted to. I’d start out writing about how much fun we had but I’d wander off into the story about how much my life has changed the last couple of years. I finally gave in and decided to go with it, so be prepared to wait for the spanking tale.

Two years ago, love was the last thing on my mind. I was a busy woman and my job was my life. I was either at work, thinking about work, or finding a way to incorporate work into whatever I was doing at the time. I never left the office without my cell phone and pager on my person so there was never a moment when I couldn’t be in contact.

My days were a blur of activity but I enjoyed what I was doing. I was good at my job and that was enough for me. Days slipped through my fingers like so much sand and I never really noticed.

The crazy thing is, I was happy and would have gone on that way forever if the corporation I worked for hadn’t gotten greedy and replaced me and my staff with some less expensive and less qualified people.

I could be petty and say how much pleasure it gives me to know their experiment failed (and failed horribly) but I know it was for the best for me so I can’t be too mean about it. It’s funny how when you think the worst thing that could happen actually does occur, that once the smoke clears you find it wasn’t so bad after all.

I came away from that job knowing that there was a reason I needed to move on. So I did. I found a new town, a new and way less demanding job, and a new life. It took a while to relax and quit panicking every time I left the house and wasn’t weighed down with responsibility and hardware but I eventually got used to it.

I even found a new hobby; the internet. Before I knew it I had cyber friends and a place to hang out with them without having to leave the cozy home I’d just made for myself. I could laugh, play, discuss, and just be myself with a group of people who understood me. And it was all happening on a spanking discussion board.

The more time I spent there, the more I interacted with Dan. It was fun being able to play with a man whose tastes and sense of humor matched mine so well. I’d been so busy being a workaholic that I’d forgotten how to develop a real relationship with a man.

I’d gotten really good at keeping relationships casual so it’s a good thing we started out like we did. It was easier for me to reveal my deeper thoughts without any of the awkwardness that can happen face-to-face. Being as out of practice as I was, it really was for the best.

Somehow, someway that all led to this new life we have together. Being here with Dan, making a life, and realizing with each passing day that I love him just a little bit more. It still amazes me. That’s the mindset I was in on Valentine’s Day.

I know it’s just a made up holiday but it’s still special to us. I barely noticed that particular day before because there was no reason to celebrate. Now that holiday is part of our history together because the date is close to when our life together began.

I found a man to share laughter, love, spankings, and a life with and it happened when I wasn’t even looking. I’d been alone for so long, I didn’t even know what I was waiting for any longer. Now I can’t imagine not having him with me.

That’s what I meant when I said I kept getting hung up on how we got to this Valentine’s Day instead of what we did. I keep thinking how this must have been meant to be since all the pieces fell together just right at exactly the right time. It’s amazing.

I think I’m going to start a new program for these moments when I feel this way. You know how people say they want to pinch themselves to make sure they’re not dreaming? Maybe I should start pinching Dan to see if I’m awake. I can be confident that the result will be an eye-opening spanking so that would be more than enough to convince me I’m not dreaming. Yup, sounds like a plan to me! *grin*

Spanking Parties

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

Thanks to Paul over atLa Fassee for providing a link to this list of spanking parties compiled by the folks at Cameo Classics. *Note: The links in this post are no longer of use. The sites mentioned here aren’t there now. Sorry!*

I get quite a few inquiries from people who wish to make contact with other spankos so this list could be just what they’re looking for. Dan and I aren’t in an area where we could take advantage of any of these groups so I can’t tell you anything from first-hand experience. We found each other on a discussion board btw.

On a different note, in case anyone’s wondering, the comments are working again! I just thought no one was talking to me until I realized something was broken. At least I hope that’s what was going on! 😉

For A Spanko Friend

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

A friend of mine is a domme and I wanted to make a little something special for her.

lovetrust

I want to make another with a dom soon. In the meantime, this is for all you lovely mistresses and the ones you love!

Still Spankable?

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

If I had these on, would he still go ahead and spank me or could I hope he’d take it easy on my candy ass?

candypanties

I found these at Lovers Package and just thought they were too fun. I remember loving candy jewelry when I was a kid. I’d get the whole ensemble; necklace, bracelet, and ring. I guess this panty is the answer for us big brats that never truly grew up.

I’d love to be able to see his face when he pulls down my pants and sees these. I wonder though, who gets to eat the candy?

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