My Non-Blistering Spanking

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

Dan has already blogged about this spanking but I wanted to describe it from my point of view. Especially since his side of the story sounded a little grim.

The truth is, I enjoyed it but for totally different reasons than it felt good. I had already mentioned that I was feeling out of sorts and bratty. I was really feeling that way that night. I was a little stressed out actually.

I?m sure some of you can relate to how I?ve been feeling. As much as I love my family, having them underfoot means Dan and I can?t behave as we normally do. Also, I?m the one who looked out for our mom after our dad passed away so everyone relies on me to take the lead in family matters.

I don?t usually mind but it can get a little stressful because some of my siblings don?t exactly get along. I?ve no interest in playing peacemaker, I just make sure things run smoothly and Mom gets to enjoy herself with all of her children. It?s not easy but it?s worth it.

Sunday night was our first night alone in a while but I wasn?t in a submissive state of mind just yet. I tend to get a little bossy around my family because they?ve gotten used to me taking care of things. It?s not always easy to turn that off and I?ve caught myself trying to boss Dan around when I?m with my family. He doesn?t let me get away with it but I still try.

That night when he first started to spank me, I was happy to be over his knee getting some attention at last but I wasn?t feeling the least bit submissive. That?s why when he started getting vigorous with the awful CB paddle (now known as ?that plywood nightmare?), I got bossy and told him to use his hand instead.

That?s funny now. I?ve never topped from the bottom before and didn?t even realize what I was doing at the time. I just wanted more of a warm up. Dan being the top that he is, didn?t let me get away with that and began spanking me even harder.

I wasn?t happy about that at all. I don?t know what it is about that paddle, but it has a nasty sting and doesn?t numb one little bit. He had me kicking and complaining immediately. So much so, he made me get up and kneel.

That?s when Dan got out what he calls the tenderizing strap. Normally I *like* that strap, but not that night. I was having a tough time relaxing and giving him control of my spanking.

Dan wasn?t swinging the strap that hard but I felt it more than usual because I was fighting it. I had a nice big ball of stress tucked up in my chest and I was having a hard time letting it go. Finally, Dan landed an extra stingy stroke and I gave up trying to hold it together.

I?m not sure who was more surprised, me or Dan when I first started snuffling. He?s spanked me a lot harder than that before and never gotten that reaction. That sort of treatment usually has me happy as a clam and waving my bottom in the air.

He was sweet though and immediately checked with me to make sure I was okay. I assured him I was and we kissed a little, then he went back to work with the strap again.

I admit I was complaining but that was what I needed to do as I let myself become submissive again. I needed him to keep spanking me even as asked him not to. It was the process of getting ourselves back into our natural roles. It was exactly what I needed.

Dan mentioned he thought he shouldn?t have stopped when I really started sounding pathetic, but he was concerned because it wasn?t like me to act like that. It was for the best though. By then, I needed him to hold me and kiss me. I needed to be close to him.

Making love with him was wonderful after all of that intensity. It completed my journey back into my place in this relationship and completed me. I was a very happy subbie when the night was over.

So I was a little surprised to read his version of our night. Heck, I thought things went exactly right and he thought something went wrong for me. I put his mind at ease though and we proceeded to enjoy a very special Valentine?s Day together. I?ll blog about that night later as I received a couple of really nice goodies.

And as for that blister Dan developed, it’s getting better. It hasn’t been easy trying not to laugh whenever he brought it up. I managed though because I knew he’d heal eventually and I didn’t think my bottom was quite ready for another session with that paddle again. Still…it’s not easy! *grin*

This Brat Needs A Spanking

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

I?m not kidding either ? I really need a spanking!

You other spankos know what I mean. The craving for a spanking can be pretty intense sometimes and this is one of those times. It hasn?t been that long since I?ve gotten a good spanking so I?m going to blame this on stress and hormones.

Normally this problem would get taken care of quickly. Dan?s a spanko man so he never needs much motivation to spank but because of circumstances, he just hasn?t had the opportunity. But tomorrow is a new day. My family will be gone and it?ll just be us spankos in the house. I can?t wait!

Dan says I?m getting fractious and he may be right. It?s funny how the longer I go without a real spanking, the more of a brat I become. And I don?t even mean to be bratty. I find myself doing things that I normally would never get away with and not getting spanked for it, so I just get brattier.

It?s terribly frustrating. What?s worse is when he tries to get stern and warn me that once we?re alone again, I?m gonna get it. The man is a tease, I tell you!

I?m getting so desperate that I?ve taken to exposing myself every chance I get. Last night while he was working on the computer, I laid down next to him and made a big show of taking off my bra and massaging the areas where the underwire cut into me.

Of course, Dan took the bait and rewarded my efforts with several hard nipple pinches before reaching in his desk drawer for the small riding crop. I like that he keeps that thing handy. He spanked my tits with the crop and I loved every second of it.

Dan finished off by giving me a couple of hard ones right on my nipples and I laughed out loud. I don?t know why I do that. Intense play which should make me yelp makes me laugh sometimes. I don?t care though and Dan likes it.

It was short and sweet but my nipples stung nicely for quite a while. Gotta love that! Especially when I know there?s plenty more where that came from. Mmmm-mmmm!

Caning Smilie

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

Here’s another smilie. I wish I’d had more time to work on it…but I always think that about everything I make! LOL

caningsmilie

We Have New Spanking Movies To Watch

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

I was just informed by Dan that we have two new spanking movies to watch. In other words, I’m getting a spanking! Yay!

I love it when Dan gets movies to review. Even movies that are only halfway decent put us in the mood for our own spanking fun. If it’s a truly bad movie, well, that just means we have to do it like they should have. Either way, I get a spanking so I’ll enjoy them no matter what. *grin*

It’s a good thing we’re going to get a chance to have some fun, too. We’re both feeling healthy again and I have some family gatherings coming up. My mother’s birthday is approaching and my siblings are busy making plans.

In our family, my mother’s birthday is treated like a holiday. Everyone takes vacation time and we spend a week visiting and going on excursions. I’m not exactly sure what they have planned yet but I’m sure whatever it is, I’ll be run ragged by the end of next week. It’ll be fun but it’ll also be tiring.

I don’t know how Dan puts up with all my family’s craziness, but he does, bless his heart. I just hope we have a really good time watching those DVD’s and that will carry us through until the birthday madness is over. I’m hoping to have a nice tender bottom as well.

I’ll let Dan handle the movie reviews on his site and I’ll write about the after party here asap. In the meantime, I’ve gotta go make plans. Busy, busy, busy!

Waiting For A Spanking

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

I’m afraid there hasn’t been a lot of spanking or romance going on around our house lately. It seems like we’ve been taking turns being sick. First, I caught a cold and then Dan caught some nasty bug that’s had him dragging the last few days.

I hate being sick but I’ve learned having a man like Dan around makes the experience much easier to handle. Before I met him, when I caught a bug, I’d just soldier through it alone. Now that I have Dan, I have someone to take care of me.

I never thought I’d want that from the man in my life, but it’s one of the perks in our relationship. There are a lot of perks when you have a dominant man like Dan around but I didn’t know about this one.

Dan’s very protective of me normally and even more so when I’m sick. He makes sure I get enough rest, goes out for the juice and tissues I like, and makes me feel safe and cared for. It’s funny, he growls at me if he thinks I’m not taking care of myself and I don’t mind at all. In fact, I kinda like it.

I especially like it when he threatens to spank me good and hard once I’m well enough. I never knew a promised spanking was the cure for a cold but it really seemed to work for me. Forget chicken soup and zinc tablets, all I need is the promise of sore bottom and I’m well on my way to being cured!

Spanko Dress-Up

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

I *like* playing dress-up and today I found some very nice things while looking at the Valentine’s goodies at Eros Boutique that I?d love to have. This outfit looks absolutely yummy?mmmmmm.

latexslavegirl

I have so much fun cruising the net and finding fantasy outfits to drool over. For me, one of the fun things about being kinky is the amount of dressing up I get to do. And I?m always on the lookout for something new to make mine and Dan?s fantasies complete.

Lately I?ve been working on adding to my harem girl and slave girl collections. I?m wondering though, would it be over the top if I start taking belly dancing lessons?

How Kinky Am I?

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

Okay, I give up. I’m kinky and no matter how innocent my intentions are, my true nature always shines through. Not that I’m complaining too much, that’s how I hooked Dan. *wink*

Tonight, Dan was relaxing with a good book so I decided to play on the computer and give him some peace. I have a tendency to poke him every once in a while if I don’t have something to keep me occupied. I should have been blogging but I decided to play instead.

After catching up on my blog reading, I wandered over to Quizilla to check out the latest quizzes. I don’t know why I like quizzes (especially after the Dr. Seuss quiz told me I was the Cat in the Hat), but I do.

I took a couple of the quizzes during which I found out I was an Air Sprite for one thing. Then found one I thought sounded fun, “What Classic Pin-Up Are You?”

I had the classic pin-up girls in mind when I took the quiz. You know the ones I’m talking about, Marilyn Monroe, Betty Grable, and so on. It didn’t occur to me to think there’d be anything kinky about this little quiz. Imagine my surprise when I finish and see my results.

You are Bettie Page!
You’re Bettie Page!

What Classic Pin-Up Are You?
brought to you by Quizilla

You’d have to substitute “slave girl” for “dominatrix” but otherwise it’s right. I guess I’ll have to forgive Quizilla for that Cat in the Hat thing now. LOL

Spanking Update – More Spank-mercials

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

We’ve been a little busy around here but I thought I’d squeeze in an update. We’re like everyone else, life gets busy and finding time to play can sometimes be tough. Sometimes we just have to grab a moment or two when we can. Which means, spank-mercials are back again!

It started the other night with us lounging around watching tv and winding down from a busy day. Dan was sitting up against the headboard of the bed while I laid across the bottom of the bed at his feet. I’ve mentioned before that spank-mercials are what he calls the short spankings he gives me during the commercials to help pass the time.

He does it fairly often but Dan surprised me this time because he’d managed to sneak one of the canes by me. He caught me completely off guard with the first light stroke he landed on my pantyclad bottom. I was expecting his hand or the riding crop but not one of the canes.

I yelped a little and somehow managed not to fall off the end of the bed. Dan kept his swings light and fast so he could get in as many as possible during the breaks. I quickly learned that it doesn’t matter how light he swings that cane, it still stings like crazy! It almost felt like a switch because of the way he was using it.

With every break, the burn in my bottom would increase just a little more. Spanking me with the cane as lightly as he was, I was able to take quite a few strokes but they still stung. I was starting to wonder if it was just me or were there always that many commercials during the average movie.

I just know he was awfully proud of himself whenever he’d reach down and massage my bottom and check my heat levels. Me and my bottom were both plenty hot and I’d moan encouragingly every time he’d squeeze me. I’ll cheerfully admit that I was more than happy to see that movie end. (Not that I even know how it ended.)

As for us, our night concluded with another hot and sweaty ending but I’ll leave that to your imaginations. *grin*