Spanking Bethie

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Wishing For A New Spanking Toy

I?ve been trying to put together a ?wish list? for Dan so he knows what I want for Christmas. I?ve listed some electronic goodies and jewelry but I?d really like a new spanking toy for us to play with. I just can?t decide which one.

I?ve been trying to pick which of our toys is my favorite so I?d have somewhere to start but I can?t make up my mind. After all, they all have their good points and bad points.

Take the CB paddle Dan recently blogged about. It?s light but still manages to sting like crazy. We’ve had a lot of fun with that toy because he can spank me with it much longer than he can with the nasty, evil bath brush. The sting from the CB paddle is delicious but it doesn?t have the quite the long lasting effects of the bath brush.

This might sound crazy, but I like having a slightly sore bottom the day after a spanking. Every time I sit down I get a nice reminder, which keeps me in a state of constant arousal, and Dan reaps the benefits of that. I have a tough bottom so having me tender means any spanking I get is going to get a reaction and he likes that?not to mention the fact that I?m already horny anyway.

This makes me think a nice paddle somewhere between the CB paddle and the bath brush would be fun. But does such a thing exist? And what about the leather toys I like so much?

The big strap can leave a lasting reminder, the flogger is wonderful because of its varying sting, and the tawse definitely gets my attention but I?m not sure what other leather toy I might like. Decisions, decisions!

Maybe I?ll just go look at some of the online sites and see if anything catches my eye and after that I could go ask Dan to try out a few toys on me to see if that helps. Goodness knows it couldn?t hurt ? except for in that good way I like. Ahhh there is a method to my madness!

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 10:10 pm
Comments (15)


  1. And here I thought you had your heart set on some new canes for Christmas! Or some of Frank and Lisa’s hardwood switches — aren’t bad girls supposed to get switches? 😉

    Comment by SpankBoss — 12/2/2004 @ 10:15 pm

  2. Man, I’ve been to two cracker barrels in the past week and couldn’t find the paddle at either of them *sigh* it sounded so nice too.

    I completely agree with the preferring a little bit of soreness the day after. It prolongs the feeling of love that accompanies a spanking and definitely does keep me on my toes (not just because I can’t sit down either 😉 ). It’s like a nice warm fuzzy feeling.. like hug ^__^. I know, I can’t describe it really.

    There’s always a riding crop, you know. Has a small striking area, but larger than a cane and leather. Can have pretty varied strokes from *gentle* attention getting swats to “I’m going to run into the other room now.” And we all know the girls at the horse shop know what people go in to buy them for. 😉

    Comment by xia — 12/2/2004 @ 10:32 pm

  3. Switches? Eeek!

    Xia, you’re not the only one who seems to be having problems finding those paddles. I almost didn’t find the ones we bought. They were with the toys but hidden very carefully. I literally had to squeeze my hand behind a display to get at them. I think they know exactly what those things are for – just like the girls at the horse store know!

    Comment by Bethie — 12/2/2004 @ 10:43 pm

  4. I’ve found what looks like the famous “BC Tournament Paddleball” at
    The shipping makes it a bit expensive, but more convenient for those of us who are not close to a Cracker Barrel, or can’t find one at our local. Bethie, thanks for starting this blog; you are always thought-provoking.

    Comment by Sam — 12/3/2004 @ 5:59 am

  5. Sam, thanks for the compliment and the link! I think I’ll copy it and put it in a post so everyone who’s looking for this can see it.

    Comment by Bethie — 12/3/2004 @ 9:21 am

  6. I dunno if this helps everyone about the shipping of the paddleball at that site, but if you change the shipping option from the one it is automatically on (UPS Ground residential) to the United States Parcel Post, the shipping pretty much gets cut in half. The only draw back is it may take and extra day or two, but if you use the Priority mail (which is just like 20 cents more than parcel post) it would take the same amount of time as the UPS ground would.

    Yea, I am way too obsessed with E-Bay

    Comment by Kelly — 12/3/2004 @ 10:49 am

  7. LOL Thanks, for the tips, Kelly! I keep saying that E-Bay is actually good for me and this is just another example of its usefulness. 😉

    Comment by Bethie — 12/3/2004 @ 11:15 am

  8. of course e-bay’s good for you. The FDA should make a reccommended daily allowance for it. ooh..

    Sam, ooh those paddles look fun. I’ll keep checking cracker barrel and hope it works though. Hmm, I wonder if informing employees of the secret of those paddles is part of Cracker Barrel training…. ^_^ why am I motivated to write a cracker barrel related story now…

    Comment by xia — 12/3/2004 @ 11:47 pm

  9. Isn’t it funny how that twinge the day after has the same effect as a good hug from your S/O?

    Cool, isn’t it.


    Comment by Jayda — 12/4/2004 @ 12:55 am

  10. Ya know Bethie, a leather covered paddle might be just what you’re looking for. I like ours. It’s not as stingy as a wooden paddle so it can be used with much more enthusiasm til you get that nice thuddy feel. Of course a plain old leather belt is nice too.

    Comment by sinnamon — 12/4/2004 @ 1:10 pm

  11. yeah, but why ask for a belt when he already has those? Leather covered paddles seem pretty nice.

    I wonder if those braided belts are any different than normal ones…

    Comment by xie — 12/4/2004 @ 2:08 pm

  12. I put a folder together for Q on the computer, giving him links to all the toys I have found. Even put them in order, so who knows what he will come up with.


    Comment by Jayda — 12/4/2004 @ 3:19 pm

  13. I think that you should keep an eye out for a Jokari paddle. Heavier and larger and more thuddy than those paddleball Cracker Barrel things, but not as ouchy as I bet a bath brush is.

    Comment by Dr Spank — 12/4/2004 @ 7:47 pm

  14. Lots to think about but I’m starting to think a small leather paddle might be nice.

    I’ve seen a couple of jokari paddles but I thought they were as heavy as a bath brush. I might go look at those again.

    As for braided leather belts, they not only sting more than regular belts but they leave really strange marks. The last time Dan used one on me, my butt looked like a red woven basket when he was through! lol

    Comment by Bethie — 12/4/2004 @ 11:08 pm

  15. well, you know they say you have to suffer to create true art… I guess that’s just taken a bit more litterally… 😉

    Comment by xia — 12/6/2004 @ 12:31 am

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