Spanking Bethie All about my spankings and my love


Fetish Game

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 2:41 pm

This looks like a game that could come in handy when you’re first getting to know someone. Grab a few beers, find a quiet place to play, and then have some fun.


I found this at and according to the description, “Fetish! is the game that allows you and your partner to safely explore popular sexual fetishes – like Food, Feet, Voyeurism and Domination. While venturing along your selected fetish path, you select fetish cards containing adventurous ideas that you and your partner can enjoy together.”

I can think of a time or two this could have come in handy when I was single. I’d even consider getting the game now just for giggles but I doubt I could ever get Dan to play. He has enough games he wants to play as it is.

Speaking of which, I’m hoping for some play tonight so I’d better start getting ready. 😉


Spanking and Bondage

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 2:12 pm

I’m so glad I’m not the only one who thinks these two kinks go so well together. Bondage seems to be on a lot of spanko’s minds these days and after seeing this post on Patty’s blog, I remembered Dan posted a couple of pics of our rope play on his blog.

He posted two pics including one of me in a rope harness and this later one I really liked.


Monk says he plans to make some rope in hot pink which I’d just love to have. Not only would it be fun to play with, it’d make for some yummy pictures.


My Pre-Valentine Spanking Report

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 9:42 pm

I know I promised to report about my Valentine Spanking but because of one thing or another, I couldn’t seem to write it the way I wanted to. I’d start out writing about how much fun we had but I’d wander off into the story about how much my life has changed the last couple of years. I finally gave in and decided to go with it, so be prepared to wait for the spanking tale.

Two years ago, love was the last thing on my mind. I was a busy woman and my job was my life. I was either at work, thinking about work, or finding a way to incorporate work into whatever I was doing at the time. I never left the office without my cell phone and pager on my person so there was never a moment when I couldn’t be in contact.

My days were a blur of activity but I enjoyed what I was doing. I was good at my job and that was enough for me. Days slipped through my fingers like so much sand and I never really noticed.

The crazy thing is, I was happy and would have gone on that way forever if the corporation I worked for hadn’t gotten greedy and replaced me and my staff with some less expensive and less qualified people.

I could be petty and say how much pleasure it gives me to know their experiment failed (and failed horribly) but I know it was for the best for me so I can’t be too mean about it. It’s funny how when you think the worst thing that could happen actually does occur, that once the smoke clears you find it wasn’t so bad after all.

I came away from that job knowing that there was a reason I needed to move on. So I did. I found a new town, a new and way less demanding job, and a new life. It took a while to relax and quit panicking every time I left the house and wasn’t weighed down with responsibility and hardware but I eventually got used to it.

I even found a new hobby; the internet. Before I knew it I had cyber friends and a place to hang out with them without having to leave the cozy home I’d just made for myself. I could laugh, play, discuss, and just be myself with a group of people who understood me. And it was all happening on a spanking discussion board.

The more time I spent there, the more I interacted with Dan. It was fun being able to play with a man whose tastes and sense of humor matched mine so well. I’d been so busy being a workaholic that I’d forgotten how to develop a real relationship with a man.

I’d gotten really good at keeping relationships casual so it’s a good thing we started out like we did. It was easier for me to reveal my deeper thoughts without any of the awkwardness that can happen face-to-face. Being as out of practice as I was, it really was for the best.

Somehow, someway that all led to this new life we have together. Being here with Dan, making a life, and realizing with each passing day that I love him just a little bit more. It still amazes me. That’s the mindset I was in on Valentine’s Day.

I know it’s just a made up holiday but it’s still special to us. I barely noticed that particular day before because there was no reason to celebrate. Now that holiday is part of our history together because the date is close to when our life together began.

I found a man to share laughter, love, spankings, and a life with and it happened when I wasn’t even looking. I’d been alone for so long, I didn’t even know what I was waiting for any longer. Now I can’t imagine not having him with me.

That’s what I meant when I said I kept getting hung up on how we got to this Valentine’s Day instead of what we did. I keep thinking how this must have been meant to be since all the pieces fell together just right at exactly the right time. It’s amazing.

I think I’m going to start a new program for these moments when I feel this way. You know how people say they want to pinch themselves to make sure they’re not dreaming? Maybe I should start pinching Dan to see if I’m awake. I can be confident that the result will be an eye-opening spanking so that would be more than enough to convince me I’m not dreaming. Yup, sounds like a plan to me! *grin*


Spanking Parties

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 9:46 am

Thanks to Paul over atLa Fassee for providing a link to this list of spanking parties compiled by the folks at Cameo Classics. *Note: The links in this post are no longer of use. The sites mentioned here aren’t there now. Sorry!*

I get quite a few inquiries from people who wish to make contact with other spankos so this list could be just what they’re looking for. Dan and I aren’t in an area where we could take advantage of any of these groups so I can’t tell you anything from first-hand experience. We found each other on a discussion board btw.

On a different note, in case anyone’s wondering, the comments are working again! I just thought no one was talking to me until I realized something was broken. At least I hope that’s what was going on! 😉


For A Spanko Friend

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 3:59 pm

A friend of mine is a domme and I wanted to make a little something special for her.


I want to make another with a dom soon. In the meantime, this is for all you lovely mistresses and the ones you love!


Still Spankable?

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 6:38 pm

If I had these on, would he still go ahead and spank me or could I hope he’d take it easy on my candy ass?


I found these at Lovers Package and just thought they were too fun. I remember loving candy jewelry when I was a kid. I’d get the whole ensemble; necklace, bracelet, and ring. I guess this panty is the answer for us big brats that never truly grew up.

I’d love to be able to see his face when he pulls down my pants and sees these. I wonder though, who gets to eat the candy?


My Non-Blistering Spanking

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 11:28 pm

Dan has already blogged about this spanking but I wanted to describe it from my point of view. Especially since his side of the story sounded a little grim.

The truth is, I enjoyed it but for totally different reasons than it felt good. I had already mentioned that I was feeling out of sorts and bratty. I was really feeling that way that night. I was a little stressed out actually.

I?m sure some of you can relate to how I?ve been feeling. As much as I love my family, having them underfoot means Dan and I can?t behave as we normally do. Also, I?m the one who looked out for our mom after our dad passed away so everyone relies on me to take the lead in family matters.

I don?t usually mind but it can get a little stressful because some of my siblings don?t exactly get along. I?ve no interest in playing peacemaker, I just make sure things run smoothly and Mom gets to enjoy herself with all of her children. It?s not easy but it?s worth it.

Sunday night was our first night alone in a while but I wasn?t in a submissive state of mind just yet. I tend to get a little bossy around my family because they?ve gotten used to me taking care of things. It?s not always easy to turn that off and I?ve caught myself trying to boss Dan around when I?m with my family. He doesn?t let me get away with it but I still try.

That night when he first started to spank me, I was happy to be over his knee getting some attention at last but I wasn?t feeling the least bit submissive. That?s why when he started getting vigorous with the awful CB paddle (now known as ?that plywood nightmare?), I got bossy and told him to use his hand instead.

That?s funny now. I?ve never topped from the bottom before and didn?t even realize what I was doing at the time. I just wanted more of a warm up. Dan being the top that he is, didn?t let me get away with that and began spanking me even harder.

I wasn?t happy about that at all. I don?t know what it is about that paddle, but it has a nasty sting and doesn?t numb one little bit. He had me kicking and complaining immediately. So much so, he made me get up and kneel.

That?s when Dan got out what he calls the tenderizing strap. Normally I *like* that strap, but not that night. I was having a tough time relaxing and giving him control of my spanking.

Dan wasn?t swinging the strap that hard but I felt it more than usual because I was fighting it. I had a nice big ball of stress tucked up in my chest and I was having a hard time letting it go. Finally, Dan landed an extra stingy stroke and I gave up trying to hold it together.

I?m not sure who was more surprised, me or Dan when I first started snuffling. He?s spanked me a lot harder than that before and never gotten that reaction. That sort of treatment usually has me happy as a clam and waving my bottom in the air.

He was sweet though and immediately checked with me to make sure I was okay. I assured him I was and we kissed a little, then he went back to work with the strap again.

I admit I was complaining but that was what I needed to do as I let myself become submissive again. I needed him to keep spanking me even as asked him not to. It was the process of getting ourselves back into our natural roles. It was exactly what I needed.

Dan mentioned he thought he shouldn?t have stopped when I really started sounding pathetic, but he was concerned because it wasn?t like me to act like that. It was for the best though. By then, I needed him to hold me and kiss me. I needed to be close to him.

Making love with him was wonderful after all of that intensity. It completed my journey back into my place in this relationship and completed me. I was a very happy subbie when the night was over.

So I was a little surprised to read his version of our night. Heck, I thought things went exactly right and he thought something went wrong for me. I put his mind at ease though and we proceeded to enjoy a very special Valentine?s Day together. I?ll blog about that night later as I received a couple of really nice goodies.

And as for that blister Dan developed, it’s getting better. It hasn’t been easy trying not to laugh whenever he brought it up. I managed though because I knew he’d heal eventually and I didn’t think my bottom was quite ready for another session with that paddle again. Still…it’s not easy! *grin*


This Brat Needs A Spanking

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 10:36 am

I?m not kidding either ? I really need a spanking!

You other spankos know what I mean. The craving for a spanking can be pretty intense sometimes and this is one of those times. It hasn?t been that long since I?ve gotten a good spanking so I?m going to blame this on stress and hormones.

Normally this problem would get taken care of quickly. Dan?s a spanko man so he never needs much motivation to spank but because of circumstances, he just hasn?t had the opportunity. But tomorrow is a new day. My family will be gone and it?ll just be us spankos in the house. I can?t wait!

Dan says I?m getting fractious and he may be right. It?s funny how the longer I go without a real spanking, the more of a brat I become. And I don?t even mean to be bratty. I find myself doing things that I normally would never get away with and not getting spanked for it, so I just get brattier.

It?s terribly frustrating. What?s worse is when he tries to get stern and warn me that once we?re alone again, I?m gonna get it. The man is a tease, I tell you!

I?m getting so desperate that I?ve taken to exposing myself every chance I get. Last night while he was working on the computer, I laid down next to him and made a big show of taking off my bra and massaging the areas where the underwire cut into me.

Of course, Dan took the bait and rewarded my efforts with several hard nipple pinches before reaching in his desk drawer for the small riding crop. I like that he keeps that thing handy. He spanked my tits with the crop and I loved every second of it.

Dan finished off by giving me a couple of hard ones right on my nipples and I laughed out loud. I don?t know why I do that. Intense play which should make me yelp makes me laugh sometimes. I don?t care though and Dan likes it.

It was short and sweet but my nipples stung nicely for quite a while. Gotta love that! Especially when I know there?s plenty more where that came from. Mmmm-mmmm!


Caning Smilie

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 9:32 am

Here’s another smilie. I wish I’d had more time to work on it…but I always think that about everything I make! LOL


We Have New Spanking Movies To Watch

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 9:29 am

I was just informed by Dan that we have two new spanking movies to watch. In other words, I’m getting a spanking! Yay!

I love it when Dan gets movies to review. Even movies that are only halfway decent put us in the mood for our own spanking fun. If it’s a truly bad movie, well, that just means we have to do it like they should have. Either way, I get a spanking so I’ll enjoy them no matter what. *grin*

It’s a good thing we’re going to get a chance to have some fun, too. We’re both feeling healthy again and I have some family gatherings coming up. My mother’s birthday is approaching and my siblings are busy making plans.

In our family, my mother’s birthday is treated like a holiday. Everyone takes vacation time and we spend a week visiting and going on excursions. I’m not exactly sure what they have planned yet but I’m sure whatever it is, I’ll be run ragged by the end of next week. It’ll be fun but it’ll also be tiring.

I don’t know how Dan puts up with all my family’s craziness, but he does, bless his heart. I just hope we have a really good time watching those DVD’s and that will carry us through until the birthday madness is over. I’m hoping to have a nice tender bottom as well.

I’ll let Dan handle the movie reviews on his site and I’ll write about the after party here asap. In the meantime, I’ve gotta go make plans. Busy, busy, busy!

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