Spanking Bethie

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When Spanking is a “Sure Thing”

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How do I ensure that a good spanking is going to happen? I get this question a lot so I’m going to explain how I do it. I’m not one to leave these things to chance so I have my ways. (Btw, everyone has their own way of going about these things so I can only speak for myself here.) I state my desires, I set the scene, I obtain the tools, and I provide my willing bottom.

For instance, for my most recent spanking I did the following:

1) At some point in the day I mentioned I wanted a spanking and clapped my hands in gleeful anticipation.
2) I dressed up in my skimpy schoolgirl outfit, complete with cutesy socks that I bought for just this sort of occasion.
3) I gave him a lap dance and made sure my “Spank Me” panties were impossible to miss. (Panties in laundry, not in pic.)
4) Some time ago I had personally purchased the largest and heaviest of the paddles Dan used last night.
5) I also pointed out above mentioned evil paddle when he was looking in the toy bag.

The one thing I didn’t count on was probably the most obvious; schoolgirl outfits scream out for the cane. Yeah, yeah, I should know this by now, I know. I was too focused on that big ole paddle to think of that at the time. Dan didn’t miss that point though. But then again, the man never misses an opportunity to put that big, mean cane to use.

I did notice something though. When I was bent over the arm of his big easy chair, kicking and squealing while he applied cane stroke after cane stroke, I thought for once that big, evil paddle was going to be a welcome relief. And it was! After goodness knows how many cane strokes, when Dan switched to the big paddle, the thud felt soooo good. Instead of all those individual lines of fire, the big thuddy stroke of that paddle was just what I needed. Mmm-mmmm.

That was a big long spanking that left my bottom throbbing for hours and sore for days. I was barely able to sit the next day and pretty uncomfortable for a few days after that. I’m not complaining though. After all, that’s what I was going for using my “sure thing” plan. *grin*

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 1:46 pm
Comments (5)


  1. Once again, thanks so much for sharing these moments with us!

    Comment by dylan — 9/30/2010 @ 2:55 pm

  2. Great post! Where did you get your skirt? I’ve been looking for one, but apparently I’m a bit of a ‘snob’ when it comes to schoolgirl skirts and I can’t find one I like for the life of me! Thanks!

    Comment by jess — 10/3/2010 @ 8:22 pm

  3. G’day, Bethie 🙂

    For the administrator, your 1) is, in my opinion, the absolutely critical one. I have conditioned myself to make sure I hear every word she utters, and to read everything she may write. Because experience has taught me that somewhere in those words, either spoken or written, will be the vital clue that I should prepare for action; that it’s okay to escalate things to the next stage. It might be only a single word in a stream of words, but it changes everything.

    Comment by Eric Carwardine — 10/4/2010 @ 7:46 am

  4. Bethie,
    Great post; having you in the pic of the outfit would have made it even better.

    Comment by todd — 10/14/2010 @ 12:13 pm

  5. Dylan, you’re very welcome! I enjoy sharing the fun. 😉

    Jess, I found this one on ebay. I have another that I absolutely adore that is more of a kilt (because it has little buckle closures off to one side) and I bought it there as well. 😀

    Eric, thank you for the comment!

    Todd, I have put up a pic of me in that outfit but it’s been a while so you might have forgotten. 😉

    Comment by Bethie — 10/31/2010 @ 2:13 pm

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