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Talking About Birthday Spankings

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

bday paddle with pen

Bonnie of My Bottom Smarts has a brunch every Sunday and the her topics always get some very insightful and interesting conversations going. This week her subject was birthday spankings. Since I’d already posted about mine earlier this week, I thought I’d mention a few memories of birthday spankings past.

See that paddle in the pic? The packaging includes a pen so the paddle can be signed by whoever uses it. The text on the front reads:

Because a Birthday just isn’t a Birthday without lots of Birthday Spankings!

I have to say, I agree with their sentiment. Unluckily the paddle itself is light and isn’t really meant to be used for a good paddling, but they’re lots of fun for parties, as I found out one year way back before I met Dan.

That year I bought myself one of those paddles in a fit of self pity. My birthday was coming and there was no one special in my life. I figured I’d take it to the party and even though I wasn’t going to get a real birthday spanking that year, the paddle would be good for a laugh. Well, I was a bit mistaken.

I found that despite how some people might act the rest of the year, as soon as they spied that paddle among the party supplies, they couldn’t wait to get their hands on it and try it out on me. It didn’t matter if it was a gal or a guy, they thought it was great fun and were happy to give me at least a few swats before proudly signing the paddle.

The paddle itself was too light to give a real swat, but it was just fun! I was not only bent over, I went over quite a few laps for at least a few swats and that was good enough for me. I was amazed how many people got into the spirit of things. That party was quite an eye opener. The next time I was footloose and fancy free on my big day, I made sure to find another birthday paddle to add to the party supplies.

(Btw, you can find them among the gag gifts at stores that carry that sort of thing. Or do an online search for “birthday paddle with pen” and you should be able to find one, if you’re interested.)

I just thought it was funny how normally very straight people were happy to give me some birthday swats, proudly sign the paddle, and then pass it on to the next willing spanker. I’ve got at least two of those paddles packed away somewhere, and both of them are completely covered with signatures. Ahhh good times!

Luckily these days I have my very own spanker who loves me and spanks me whether it’s my birthday or any other day. But back then, it was a good thing to find out that the tradition of the birthday spanking was alive and well out there. Not to mention lots of fun!

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Spanking Good News!

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

spanko news

I’ve got a brand new paddle! It’s big, it’s ouchie, and I have high hopes for it. Dan’s hoping with determination and steady application, that by the end of the weekend my bottom should be good and sore.

That sounds like a plan I can get behind, or rather, in front of! *wink*

As for that paper, I know it’s old but I still like using this newspaper generator.

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Panties Voted Most Likely To Be Spanked

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

spankable panties

I opened my panty drawer today and realized these three had made their way to the front again. I usually keep these toward the back of the drawer unless I really want a spanking. Dan says I must really be looking for a spanking if I’ve got one of these on and he goes right to it. I might as well just paint a target on my bottom and hand him a paddle.

Hmmm now that I think of it, maybe I should go ahead to that next step and have a paddle ready when I put one of these on. That might save me the occasional surprise when he grabs the closest toy he can find. Too often it’s the evil rubber spatula or the loopy cane. It happens way too often for my comfort. Ouchie!

I have a couple of other panties that get threatened, but these are the main ones that scream “Spank me!” That black one is the most straight-forward of the bunch seeing as it actually has “Spank Me!!” across the target area, but they all pretty much get the same reaction.

Being grumpy is one thing, being grumpy and wearing the panties that have “Grumpy” printed right across the butt is another. Those panties are a clear sign that I’m ready to have the grump spanked right out of me. They haven’t failed me yet.

I recently bought these blue Halloween panties and for some reason this little guy just pushes all of Dan’s spanko buttons.

grumpy halloween bear

I can’t imagine why. Just because all those little bears seem to be sticking their tongues out at him doesn’t mean they need smacking. It’s not like I’m doing it; I’m just wearing the cute little guys across my bottom.

Okay, so I might as well paint a target there. *grin*

Now I’ve got to go count those little bears because Dan has decided that wearing those panties will cost me one spank per bear. I want to know what I have to look forward to.

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Yummy Birthday Spanking

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

bday spanking toys

I recently had a birthday and haven’t had time to write about the yummy birthday spanking my sweetie, Dan (SpankBoss of Spanking Blog), gave me. The main participants are pictured above. He used my favorite rose paddle, beaver tail paddle (both from Leather Thorn Paddles), the medium sized delrin cane, and a brand new whippy toy. I’m not sure what what the whippy toy is called or where it’s from and since it’s a gift, I haven’t asked. So from here on out, it’s the whippy toy.

To prepare for my spanking, I got myself all comfy on the bed, lying face down with a couple of pillows under me, and offered up my bottom for his attention. I’m always eager for a good spanking and my birthday spankings from Dan have been wonderful. He warmed me up nicely with the leather paddles, making my bottom all warm and tingly.

Then Dan being Dan, he snuck in a few zingers with the delrin cane. He landed one right on the crease between my bottom and thigh that really made me wiggle and squeal just a little. Something tells me the wiggling and squealing only encourages him to do things like that. But I can’t help it so the evil cycle of wiggling and spanking just keeps on going.

I whined a little and pointed out that it was my birthday spanking and I should get what I wanted. But wouldn’t you know it, Dan didn’t completely agree with me. Of course, once the intitial sting of that cane stroke settled into a nice warm line, I didn’t mind…but don’t tell him that! He might start to think he was right after all. Can’t have that you know!

After the cane, Dan had gone back to the leather paddles and I became really relaxed. That’s usually when things get interesting and as usual, they did.

new whip and stinger

Those interesting toys are the whippy toy I already mentioned and the Cobra Stinger. The stinger can give either a pulsating zing or a stronger constant one. We’ve been playing with it for a while, but I don’t remember mentioning it. It’s a somewhat intense sensation toy and I’m not sure exactly how to describe it. It gives a pretty good sting when set on high and a strange tingling zing when on pulsate.

We’ve been having fun with the stinger lately but I wasn’t expecting it during my birthday spanking. So when Dan told me to spread my legs, I didn’t expect him to “help” me along with the stinger. He was using it on pulsate and touching it to the inside of my upper thighs to inspire me to spread them just a little more.

I wasn’t sure what Dan was up to, but I was happy to play along and find out. That’s when the new whippy thing came out. The leather is rolled from the handle and the tip comes to a point, as you can see in the picture. The end is the impact point and since it’s not too long, Dan can really control it. He’d practiced on my boobs earlier so I knew what to expect from it already, and I began to suspect what Dan was planning to do with it then.

Still, when the first stroke landed on the inside of my thigh, I yelped a little and pulled my thighs closer together. Dan touched the stinger to my inner thighs and I quickly parted them again. He was saying something but my mind was on where that whippy end was going to land next.

Then the next stroke landed high on my mound causing me to flinch and squeak a bit but with the stinger’s encouragement, I quickly spread my thighs apart again. As Dan continued landing light stingy strokes along my tenderest bits, we kept repeating the process; whip, flinch, sting, spread. It was getting pretty intense when Dan decided it was time to go back to spanking my bottom.

After a nice dose of my favorite paddles again, it was finally time to get down to the actual birthday spanking. We haggled a bit over who was going to count and at first, I was going to let Dan do the counting. Then when he asked if I was sure I wanted him to keep count, I decided it might be better if I did.

Something in his tone made me think he might not be as precise as I might want. I could imagine it becoming the never-ending birthday spanking. I like a good spanking, but even I have my limits!

That’s when we got down to business. It was mighty good business, too. Dan increased the intensity with each spank, with breaks for rubbing between sets. I got a little confused after a bit. Well, a little “distracted” might be the better term. I started to rethink the logic of electing to do the counting myself.

The last set of swats were the hardest and I was having a time trying to say the numbers loud enough for him to hear. Did I mention I was getting distracted?

I was almost disappointed when I realized we’d reached the end, and just as I relaxed, Dan gave me an extra hard spank. I’d forgotten the final “one to grow on” spank.

That last swat had barely sunk in when we got down to the lovemaking. With my hot bottom rubbing against the sheets, and my love between my legs, it was the perfect ending to a yummy birthday spanking.

If it weren’t for that pesky getting older thing, I would wish for more birthdays more often. I guess that means I’ll just have to earn more spankings on my own. A greedy bottom’s work is never done.

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Someone’s Gonna Get A Spanking!

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

diary secrets

Can you guess who it is???

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Naughty, naughty, naughty!

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

two evils

Yes, I’m feeling the need to be naughty and I’m making some plans. Y’all know where this is going…

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Lovely Spanking Pics

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

Redhead - Hustler Taboo

There’s something about this set of pics that intrigues me. Whenever I look at spanking images, I always find myself paying more attention to the female subs/bottoms than to the tops/doms. I don’t know if it’s because I can relate to them, put myself mentally in their place, or what it may be. I just know that sometimes certain images really catch my eye and imagination.

Redhead 2 - Hustler Taboo

I love the look on her face!

Gallery found at Hustler Taboo.

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Spanking The Time Away

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

Tiger Tails Whip

Have I mentioned this toy? This pic is of the tails of the Stockroom’s Tiger Tails Whip, which is one of the more interesting sensation toys we have. See the ends there? There’s four of them and they’re about 10″ long. Those lovelies can be quite stingy!

The folks who wrote up this toy knew what they were talking about when they mentioned that the tails would leave marks but not cut. I wonder if they tried it out to make sure? Hmmm…now that would be an interesting job.

Before I get lost in spanko fantasy land, I should tell you how I know about those marks. The other night Dan and I were being frisky and he chose the Tiger Tails to start the fun. He had me kneel on the bed with my hands on my head. I was naked, of course, so that gave him complete access to my boobs. Dan really likes that pose…a lot!

So there I was, all perked up and waiting on my knees, and Dan began whipping my breasts with those tails. Wow! Those tails can bite! I guess that’s why they call them Tiger Tails, huh?

Anyway, Dan would do some whipping, do some caressing, and then step back to admire the marks. Unlike my bottom, my breasts mark easily and well. They’re also quite a bit more sensitive so I wasn’t surprised to see small red lines appearing across them.

One of the things that make breast play intense for me is that I can see what’s going on. Unless we have mirrors (and we usually don’t), I can’t see what goes on during a spanking. I don’t usually see the spanks coming or the result immediately after. When Dan spanks my boobs, I see it coming as well as the impression it leaves. I think that heightens the experience for me. It definitely keeps me focused on what’s going on!

Dan obviously enjoyed the experience and he promised we’d do more of that another time. He was ready to move on to the bottom smacking portion of the evening. That was awfully good, too. There were quite a few toys involved and when it was over, my bottom was good and hot. Just the way I like it! Yummmm!

We’ve been playing as usual, I just haven’t had a chance to blog about it. It seems like it’s been one thing or another lately that’s kept me running. Sorry, about that, folks! The days are getting shorter and eventually I’ll settle down and write about the fun we’ve been having. We’re still spanking it up so no worries there. You can bet that Dan’s still keeping me on my toes, or knees, as the situation warrants. *wink*

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