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My New Forum

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

I’ve been talking about setting up a spanking forum for some time and I’ve finally done it. Spanking Den is the new site and we’re hoping to make it the friendliest spanking forum on the net.

I say “we” because Dan is one of my moderators. Yes, I’ve dragged the poor man in. He indicates that in his profile, too!

Our goal is to promote discussion of this lifestyle in an open and kink friendly way. We want the forum to be comfortable like the den in our own home would be. We’d like our members to feel like they can come by to share and discuss freely all aspects of their lifestyle comfortably.

One of the main reasons I wanted my own forum was because I’ve been a member of other forums and for one reason or another, they’re no longer a good fit. It’s not easy to find people to talk to about this lifestyle and since everyone’s level of kink is a little different, it makes finding a comfortable discussion board difficult.

I’m in a different place than I was when Dan and I first met. We’re in a mature spanking relationship and we both have a lot of serious kinks. I can’t seem to find a board where there are more people like me. Or rather, a place where they aren’t critical of people like me.

I have a few cyber buddies I visit with here and there but we really don’t have a place we can go and hang out. So I decided to start my own forum to see if anyone else feels the same way.

I invite everyone to come by and check it out. If you like what you see, sign up for a membership – it’s free, and say “Hi!” And while you’re at it, check out my profile. Dan says the pic I’ve chosen for it isn’t exactly what he had in mind when we set up the options. I think it’s adorable!

Lazy Sunday

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

It’s a lazy day and I’m thinking of taking a long soak in the tub. It was awfully nice of Dan to buy me a new rubber duckie just for times like this.

duckie

Isn’t it adorable? It’s the perfect bath companion and even looks cute sitting by the tub. It’s a good thing we don’t have a lot of visitors. They might think we’re kinky or something. *grin*

In case you’d like a duckie, too, I noticed Condomania has them available in their “Gifts & Novelty” section in the “Lil Kinky” department. “Lil Kinky”? That duck looks more like “very” kinky to me. *wink*

Saturday’s Fun

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

It’s Saturday which is usually our “easy day” and Dan seems to be intent on making sure I feel every minute I spend sitting at my computer. Every chance he gets, he either swats me with his hand or gives me a few whacks with the cane.

He just keeps coming up with excuses to spank me. Like when he was teasing me about something and I told him to “hush”. I think it was a legitimate response but he didn’t see it that way. Hmph!

Dan says he doesn’t need excuses to spank me but he sure seems to like coming up with new ones. I don’t mind though. I’m kinda enjoying this spank-filled Saturday. We’re spending time just being together. It’s easy, it’s comfortable, and another reason I love being with Dan. We fit each other so well it still surprises both of us. I’m still amazed I’ve found this man!

It’s a good day and I’m going to take advantage of it as much as possible. Sitting is becoming a little more of a challenge as the day goes on but you won’t hear me complaining. I love this man. *grin*

Spanking Furniture

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

We just got a new couch and Dan has decided it’s perfect for spanking me on. When I was shopping for it, his only concern was if the arms would be good for bending me over. He even asked me if I’d checked the height of the arms to make sure I’d be able to bend over them comfortably.

I know the people at the furniture store are used to people sitting on the couches, maybe even lying down on them, but somehow I think throwing myself over the arms of them would’ve raised some eyebrows. I just very slyly leaned into the arms while checking out the back cushions.

Now that we have it in our own living room, we’ve had a chance to really check it out. I fit very nicely over the cushiony arms just like I thought I would. What I didn’t expect was, when I lie face down and stretch out, it puts me in a position Dan likes. He says it’s a perfect spanking pose.

Of course, any position I’m in that allows access to my bottom is perfect for spanking as far as he’s concerned. I’m not complaining though. And it’s funny how I end up streched out on the couch quite a bit. *wink*

Also, if anyone is keeping up with the chocolate situation at our house, Dan gave up the truffle eggs in an act of self preservation. I’d gotten kinda desperate and wild-eyed, I guess. The eggs were delicious and exactly what I needed. I even danced around in a chocolate frenzy before settling down to play computer games. I got some pretty high scores, too. LOL

The Paddles Of Summer

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

All brats beware! Now that summer will soon be upon us, the stores have stocked their shelves with all kinds of new nasty toys for evil minded tops to find.

Prokadima game sets are plentiful and come in many varieties. Dan found a set like this one at a local department store among the beach toys.

prokadimapaddle

Not only is this thing big, it stings something awful. They say it’s a popular beach game but I have my doubts. I’ve never seen anyone out playing with anything like this before. I’d have noticed.

The worst thing about these sets is that they come with two paddles per package. Two! I can’t even hide one and pretend he just misplaced it. The darn thing came with a backup paddle.

The other item to be aware of is that scary thing marketed as a handheld bug zapper. It looks like a badminton racquet with metal wires but isn’t anywhere near as innocent. If you doubt me, take a look through these movies Dan linked to in this post. There are two that feature the zapper in them.

We haven’t played with the zapper paddle for a while but I remember its “zing” very well. Ouchie!

I swear there are some evil tops out there marketing these summer goodies. I keep envisioning a beach scene, the “Jaws” theme is playing in the background, and tops are lurking about with Prokadima paddles and bug zappers ready to attack. Oh my! I remember when all I had to worry about was a wet bottom spanking! *grin*

Chocolate Cravings

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

I love chocolate and at the moment I’m craving it like crazy. I’m blaming it on hormones and hoping my emergency stash gets me through the night. Otherwise, poor Dan might be forced to go out in the middle of the night and hunt some down for me.

For now I have a couple of chocolate bars left over from our last trip. They’re not in the best of shape though. They got smashed in my luggage and are completely stuck to their wrappers.

Dan’s offered to peel the wrappers off for me should I get too desperate but I’m not sure if he offered out of sweetness or self-preservation. I can get a little grumpy when I’m like this. What’s worse is that it’s not a good time for a spanking either. *pout*

Trying to take my mind off my troubles, I went surfing around and stumbled across something at Condomania that almost pushed me over the edge.

chocolatethongs
I found these under the category of “Sinful Chocolates” and they have his and hers. I loved this description: “As soon as she puts on this thong, the heat from her body will begin to melt the chocolate heart.” His chocolate has a hole in the middle of it for…well, you know what for. I almost started to drool. Oh man, I may have to ask Dan to peel those candy bars for me after all!

A Spanking With A Twist

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

It started out as just another spanking. I was lying face down on the bed and Dan was warming me up nice and slow, just the way I like it. He’d hand spanked my entire bottom slowly building up the heat and occasionally giving me a sharp spank just to keep me from getting too relaxed.

My bottom was feeling quite warm when Dan moved on to the tawse. The leather of that toy is just right as far as I’m concerned. It’s stingy enough to make me squirm but not too thuddy so it can be used for prolonged sensation play.

I was thoroughly enjoying myself, moaning and wiggling as I rubbed myself into the pillow I was lying across. Dan said something about how I seemed to be enjoying myself and slipped his fingers into my very warm and juicy pussy just to be sure. I pushed myself against his hand and tried to say something but all I could do was moan into the bedcovers.

Before I could take full advantage of Dan’s fingers, he moved away. Thinking he was going back to spanking me, I presented my bottom up into the air for him. He encouraged me to spread my legs a little more and really stick my bottom up. I obeyed and waited.

That’s when I felt something cool and wet being massaged into my bottom hole. I started to tense up but Dan encouraged me to relax, he had a new toy for me. I knew what that meant. It was time for the butt plug.

At first he just put the tip in and worked it back and forth, then slowly he worked the plug into me. As I felt it entering me, I was tempted to clench up but somehow I managed to relax enough for him to finish pushing it in. As soon as it was in place, I felt my bottom close around it. That’s always a strange and exciting feeling.

I laid there getting used to this new sensation and barely aware of Dan. That is until the tawse landed full across my bottom. I gasped feeling not only the sting of the tawse on my bottom but the sensation of the tawse landing on the base of the plug.

Dan spanked me with the tawse for quite a while before he decided to move on to the big leather strap. I was pretty busy just enjoying all the sensations my bottom was experiencing so I hadn’t made much noise or moved much. I guess he thought he needed more power.

That first lick of that strap is always a surprise but it was even more so this time with that plug so firmly in place. I was really trying to be still and just enjoy everything I was feeling so he didn’t get much reaction though. Normally I’m squawking and wriggling around but that butt plug had my full attention.

Because the big strap is a lot heavier than the tawse, it manipulated that plug and my bottom even more and made me even crazier and hotter than before. I thought I was going to explode before he was done with me.

It’s a good thing he was feeling it, too, and after just a few minutes with the strap, he stopped and told me to roll over. I don’t know what it was about that spanking, but it didn’t take long for either of us to climax and collapse happily into the bed. The plug was good for both of us, I guess.

The funny thing is, now that we’ve tried combined the plug with spanking, Dan wants to do it again but for a totally different reason than me. He says the plug kept me from squawking and complaining. He thinks it’s a miracle cure. I guess as long as we both had fun it doesn’t matter…and we really did have a lot of fun! Who’d a thunk it? *wink*

Spank Your Maid Month

Spanking Bethie Posted by Bethie.

I just heard that April is Spank Your Maid Month. Oh goody! To me that means it’s time to go looking for a French maid’s outfit. I found this yummy vinyl one at Eros Boutique.

vinylfrechmaid

I love it and I know Dan will too! It’s about time we got to play “spank the naughty maid”. *grin*

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