Spanking Bethie All about my spankings and my love


I’ve Been Tagged!

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 9:55 pm

By Patty, no less. These questions have to do with books and not spanking so don’t get too excited just yet. I’ll tackle that subject later.

1. Total number of books I’ve owned.
I have no idea because until a few years ago, I never got rid of my books. I still have a book of fairy tales that someone gave me as a small child. I’m hoping the number in storage is under a thousand but over the years the number of books I’ve owned has to be in the thousands.

2. The last book I bought.
“Blow Fly” by Patricia Cornwell. I’m about to start reading it.

3. The last book I read.
“The Last Precinct” by Patricia Cornwell. See a pattern here?

4. 5 books that mean a lot to me.
“To Kill A Mockingbird” by Harper Lee was one of those books I read as a teenager and it stuck with me for years. It’s one of the first books I ever read that really made me think about how life isn’t always fair. It wasn’t sugar coated like most of the books I’d read before that.

“Sense and Sensibililty” by Jane Austen, or just about any other of her books really. This is one of my favorite books and I feel the need to reread it, yet again.

“The Stand” by Stephen King and “1984” by George Orwell because they really made me think about what could happen and some of the scenes have stayed with me all this time.

“The Bible” particularly the women’s NIV. It’s more than just a book to me and I’ve relied on it since I was a child. It’s a good thing it still means so much to me since my relationship with organized religion is more than just a little rocky.

5. Tag five people and request they fill this out on their journal.
Has anyone not gotten tagged yet? I came late into this game so I think I’ll cheat and just put this on Spanking Den and see if I get any takers. Yeah, I know I could tag Dan but he’d just spank me with five of this favorite books and leave it at that. Silly man!

Hey, I did manage to sneak spanking into this post. Ha!

Thanks Patty and I hope you’re feeling better!


Spanking Utensils

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 8:09 pm

It seems that there are quite a few of us whose kitchen utensils do double duty as spanking toys. Dan’s cooked my bottom several times with different ones but I can’t think of a one I’ve actually cooked with.

I’ve never even stirred anything with the big wooden spoon or that evil spatula. There’s also a couple of other wooden utensils that we use as spanking toys that have never touched food. I don’t know why but I can’t imagine trying to cook with something that’s been used to spank my bottom.

It would seem…I don’t know…almost naughty. The only time I ever handle our spanking toys is to admire them so it would seem strange to use one. Even if it is only for cooking.

I’m trying to picture it now. Me in the kitchen handling the same object that has set my bottom on fire numerous times. I don’t know if I could do it.

I’m sure I’d start thinking of the spankings I’d received with it, remembering the burn and tingle, thinking of how good spankings are with Dan, and the next thing you know, I’ve gone and burned dinner. And then the next thing I know I’m getting spanked for daydreaming and endangering myself. Geez! I can’t win!

Dan would be happy though. He really likes that evil spatula.


The Mean And Evil Rubber Spatula

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 4:50 pm

There really should be a place for evil toys to go when they’ve out lived their usefulness. Dan has this really horrific rubber spatula that I’d like to have melted down and made into something completely harmless if nothing else.

It’s not your average cooking utensil either. He bought it at a gourmet cooking store so it’s a professional quality tool. When Dan applies that thing to my bottom, it not only stings like a thousand bees, it leaves behind a terrible burn – and it’s all concentrated in an area about four inches around.

The other day, Dan surprised me by sneaking it into the lineup during a quickie. As soon as that thing landed on my bottom, I knew exactly which toy he was using. I immediately began yelping and kicking as I tried to make a getaway. Too bad that only made him remember how much he missed the awful thing. Dan *likes* toys that get my attention quickly.

The good thing is he has pity on me where that thing is concerned. He knows it’s evil and tries to dole it out in small doses. Which is wonderful and thoughtful and awfully generous and loving of him. (Yes, I know I’m laying it on thick, but you haven’t met that evil spatula.)

The worst thing about my present situatin is that I thought I was safe because he misplaced it for quite awhile and I’d hoped he’d forgotten about it. I darn sure wasn’t going to bring it up. But then he stumbled across it and could barely contain his glee.

I didn’t even bother trying to hide my horror at seeing that nasty thing again. Heck, I barely managed not to jump up and try to wrestle him for it. That only reason I managed to hold back was because my bottom was already trying to back away and I had to go with it.

I’ve been plotting the evil one’s demise but part of me (my bottom) is afraid of what Dan will replace it with. I doubt there’s anything worse but I’m not sure I’m ready to take that chance yet.

I’m even considering trying to convert it into a true cooking utensil but that would mean I’d actually have to go into the kitchen and seriously cook something. I’m not sure I’m ready to go that far just yet. I wonder, does making Rice Krispie treats count as real cooking?


Eye Candy

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 6:10 pm

Tomorrow I plan to blog about some real spanking stuff but for now I couldn’t resist posting this picture of the candy bra.


And a bigger pic of the candy garter belt.


Don’t they look yummy? I bet if I walked in wearing that and shook my bottom at Dan, I could count on getting a spanking real quick. Of course, that pretty much goes for anytime I shake my bottom at him. Now he even has a saying to go with that impulse since he’s adopted HeadTeddy’s saying about “what gets wiggled gets whacked.” The candy might add a little flavor to that. *wink*

I really can’t help but laugh about this stuff though. I know, I’ll never grow up at this rate. Not that I was planning to! LOL

And in case you’re wondering, both items can be found in the Novelty – Lil Kinky section of Condomania.


More Fun With Candy

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 7:16 pm

I actually burst out laughing when I saw this item at Condomania today in their Novelty – Lil Kinky section.


I thought the candy g-string was great but that must have been just the beginning. They have bras now, too. I could have an entire ensemble made of candy! That would be so much fun.

I’m not sure what Dan will say but I’ve gotta have them all. It’s the ultimate brat outfit – an entire lingerie set made of candy necklace pieces. This is just too good! LOL


Spanking Presents

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 11:20 pm

In case you hadn’t heard yet, I got a big surprise this week – two new straps! John from Leather Thorn Paddles made these straps and I love them. He does such great work and these are especially yummy.



They’re a lovely red color I adore, and are about 3/4 inch wide and a 1/4 inch thick. The longer one is about 21 inches long and the shorter one is about 13 inches in length.

They both deliver a serious sting that lasts for quite awhile. The longer one feels more intense and Dan can get a good swing going when he wants to. And he’s wanted to more often than not! But even when used lightly, this strap can still be mighty stingy. It can feel everything from yummy stingy to fiery stingy.

Dan’s been using the shorter one mainly for thigh and breast spanking but it’s also great for otk because of it’s length. Dan’s been pleased by my body’s reaction when he spanks my breasts while I’ve been almost embarrassed.

I can’t believe how hard my nipples get when Dan slaps them with that small strap. It’s almost like they’re betraying me. That’s one of the funny things about being a spanko girl like me, stuff that should feel bad sometimes has the exact opposite feeling.

Breast spanking is a prime example of that phenomenon for me. My mind screams “no” but my body reacts “yes” so loudly that my mind gives in and finally says “Hey, do that again, I *liked* it!” I don’t even have to say it out loud because Dan’s gotten really good at listening to my body.

We’ve been having a lot of fun with these straps the last couple of days. We’re getting them broken in pretty fast actually. *grin*

Thanks, John! You do wonderful work!


Sore Bottom Monday

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 12:32 am

Well, what else would follow Spanking Sunday?

Dan gave me a very long and wonderful spanking Sunday night. He started with a warm-up with my new rose paddle. I love the way he used it, slowly warming my bottom until I was ready for something more intense.

The more intense came in the form of a cane. He used the largest of our canes light enough to sting but not so hard as to burn deeply. I was surprised by how much I enjoyed it…again.

I guess it’s all those years of thinking the cane was the worst thing ever that causes me to always be surprised when I enjoy it. I never imagined that the cane could be used so sensuously. After such a good warm-up, the cane was perfect. It’s sting was the perfect compliment to the all over warmth the paddle had created.

Mmmm it was absolutely yummy! Dan snuck in a few zingers of course, but that was okay. Those felt good mixed in with lighter ones.

After all that warm-up, even our new heavy strap felt good, too. He landed it pretty hard a few times but I still managed to keep my butt in the air and ready for more. It’s amazing what a little preparation does for my bottom.

Dan eventually switched back to the rose paddle and slipped a hand under me so he could finger me while he spanked me. That’s when I got greedy. I laid there moaning and wriggling around but never complaining as he continued to spank me. He really concentrated on the lowest part of my cheeks, my sweet spot, so to speak.

He could’ve spanked me like that for hours and I wouldn’t have complained. I was in deep and enjoying every second of it. Somewhere in the back of my mind, I knew I was going to be sore today but I didn’t care. I was loving it and didn’t want to stop.

But then Dan reminded me that there was more fun to be had if I’d turn over and lie on my back for him. That part was especially yummy.

It’s a good thing he did that too, or else I’d be sitting on an even sorer bottom. I like the soreness I have now. It feels good when I shift around and get that little reminder that I’ve been really spanked. I think I like Sore Bottom Monday! *grin*


Spanking Sunday

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 7:21 pm

The weekend’s been fun around here and we’ve barely gotten started. One of the first things we did was take care of my “alligator” offenses. Those offenses are the little things I do that Dan keeps track of and takes care of when I’ve built up a few.

Certain behaviors are worth one alligator, some are worth two, and when I’ve earned one he’ll give me a look and say, “That’s one alligator” (or two depending on the offense.) He seems to enjoy this little game of his and I don’t mind unless I’ve racked up too many points, of course.

In case anyone’s wondering, this is our alligator paddle.



It’s about 18 inches long and 3 inches wide at the business end. It’s not too thick so it’s not a very thuddy paddle. It’s mainly stingy which I love.

We’ve been a little busy lately and this spanking kept getting put off so by this weekend, I’d earned quite a few “alligators”. I usually don’t get to earn that many but I wasn’t too worried. Dan was in a good mood and feeling playful as usual.

I have to admit something though, I’d done my best to make sure Dan was feeling happy before we started this. I knew he was going to give me a spanking after my shower because he says my bottom is more “receptive” to my spankings then.

Before my shower, we’d been playing around and I ended up face down on the sofa while Dan gave me a litte taste of our new strap. He was swinging it lightly and those swats felt wonderful. It was a good, stingy spanking and I was loving the way it was warming my bottom up. That strap is great for giving me that warm sting I enjoy.

Once he finished playing with me, I could tell we both enjoyed that little spanking. Since I was feeling really good about that little session, I decided to show him just how good I felt. I pulled open the front of his boxers and took him into my mouth. I love giving him a bj and after such a yummy bottom warming, I was feeling especially loving.

Eventually I got to go take that shower and as planned, Dan grabbed me as soon as I got out and bent me over the end of the bed. He was being very playful though and teased me about trying to soften him up earlier. I think it worked because although I got a lot of swats with the alligator and my bottom was thoroughly warmed, it was incredibly enjoyable.

In fact, sitting here at the computer hours later, I can still feel some of the sting. I *love* that feeling! The really nice thing is, this day’s not over. We’re going to watch some spanking movies Dan’s supposed to review and see how inspired they make us. Not that we need much inspiration!


In Dire Need Of A Spanking

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 12:04 am

Yup, that’s me in dire need. In case anyone was wondering, I’ve had my hands full with work so I haven’t had a chance to blog much this week. I’ve been dragging in late and feeling too tired to think straight much less blog.

I could’ve tried to blog, but I probably would’ve ended up face down on my keyboard sound asleep. It’s been a rough one and poor Dan has had to put up with me getting grumpier and grumpier as the week’s gone on.

Dan says he has the solution and it involves the new strap. Normally I’d be all over that suggestion but I’m not quite in the right frame of mind yet. I think I need to sleep about ten hours and then I’ll be more receptive to his suggestion.

At least I have something to look forward to this weekend. I’ll blog about it for sure but until then, my fuzzy little brain needs sleep. Otherwise I’ll just get myself in deeper – and I’m in deep enough as it is!


Bondage Belt

Filed under: Blog entries — Bethie @ 5:54 pm

Carrie over at ASLAN Leather has sent me a link for those of you in the UK who wanted the bondage belt I blogged about earlier. UK shoppers can find this fun belt at Nua.


Isn’t that just lovely? I like that pose and I’m sure Dan would, too. He’s always complaining because I get my hands in the way when he’s pinching my nipples or doing something of that nature. That belt would be a fun and stylish way of securing my hands.

I think it’s just great and I love that beautiful red color.

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